All any of us can do is the best we can.  if we do our best, then that's all that matter.  Your best is good enough.  God doesn't expect us to fight fate or do things that he wouldnt want, nor things that make little sense, nor things that go against our beliefes and principles./it is a beautiful world and there are many points of view, and there are young people who god gives the chance to go on adventures, for there are opportunities for adventure in life--- and the young grow old.  and when we are nearly thirty, we stop and breathe in sharply and realise "Okay God now i know that, I have grown OLD.  It Is TIME TO REST."
The young should go on adventures and the thirty-year old and up should REST.  Everybody needs it to be downhill when they reach thirty, simply because the human heart, mind and body and spirit ages.  and cannot bear the heavy load of, say, being hospitalized.
In closing, 
Hospitalization is for young people to fight.  Older People
should be free to rest.  it's like war, old people don't fight.  thirty is when we grow tired.  In Jesus' name, AMEN.////////////////////